Thursday, March 19, 2009

Running the race



On Tuesday, the Bug Hunter's class had to do the distance run for the Presidential Fitness Test. The 8 and 9 year-olds had to run 1/2 mile, and the three lucky 10 year-olds had to run a mile. They'd be doing laps around the baseball field (2 1/4 laps for the 1/2 mile, and 4 1/2 laps for the mile). Several of us moms assisted the coach with lap counts, finish placement, and back up timing. We were already at the finish line with all of our lap sticks and place cards, so I didn't hear the instructions given to the children before they started their run, but when the coach said "Ready, set, GO!", they all took off like rabbits being chased by a coyote. A couple of the kids settled into a steady pace, but most of them began to slow down after running about halfway around the field on the first full lap. As they came toward the finish line, we were cheering them on, and they would pick up the pace, grab their lap stick and run for a ways, only to fall back into a walk once they were away from the sound of our voices. I'm not sure what the time requirement is for their age and distance, but I don't think too many of them made the cutoff. As they were sitting on the bench after the run, the bug hunter asked how many of the kids would get a prize. "Son, this wasn't a race against each other," I told him. "You were all timed, and your times get sent in to a national database. They're trying to determine how fit the kids in this school are, and how fit the kids in the country are overall." One of his classmates looked up at me in dismay and said "If I'd known that, I would have run the whole way and tried to go faster! I knew I couldn't win, so I didn't think it mattered how fast I went." It hit me that whoever gave instructions to the children didn't give them the "big picture" of why they were running, leaving them with the impression that they were racing against each other. If they'd only realized that they were doing it for a greater good, they might have tried harder to finish strong, and they might have been more eager to cheer on their lagging teammates. And it makes me wonder, in this race we call life, if we don't often receive the same flawed instructions? We race against each other, trying to see who can be the "best", have the nicest house, the biggest car, the most "stuff". And if we can't "win", we get discouraged, and maybe we even stop trying. But if we get the right instructions, then we understand that it isn't how we finish AGAINST the others that matters in the end. It's how steadily we run the race, and who we bring alongside of us. It's who we cheer on and encourage. In the end, it isn't about being "first" or "best", but about simply "doing the best" that we can, whether we're in front or not. And, thankfully, it's also knowing that God doesn't throw out our times if they aren't the best; as long as we keep our eyes on the goal and finish the race, we win the prize. So,I'll try to keep my eyes on the goal, and I'll try my best to cheer on the runners around me. Because even if they have a stronger race than me, we'll all be winners at the end of the race.


Hebrews 12:1,2--Therefore, since we are surrounded by such a great cloud of witnesses, let us throw off everything that hinders and the sin that so easily entangles, and let us run with perseverance the race marked out for us. Let us fix our eyes on Jesus, the author and perfecter of our faith, who for the joy set before him endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

13 kind comments:

Rachel said...

Oh I love this! I am often reminding myself that I don't have the big picture - so I need to do my best and trust that HE will take care of everything (and everyONE) else! My heart and motivation need to be in the right place... not just doing things because of what other people might think.

Thank you so much for this beautiful reminder today!

April said...

Pam~
You always amaze me at how you can take an everyday activity and find some sort of lesson in it. I really admire you for being such a deep thinker and always being open to what God might be trying to teach you through your experiences. So glad you shared what's on your heart and mind today...you've given me much to think about now! Be blessed!

Shanda said...

So, So good!! This hits a passion point deep within me. How awesome would it be if the church could take their eyes off of themselves & each other and fix it on the prize?

I loved how you articulated the point of the Presidential Fitness test as well. Ours is coming up. I think I will talk to my kids a little about it before they run...

Elaine at Matters of the Heart) said...

What a wonderful post.

The Foster Home said...

Well said...like always. You are such an awesome person and I know that I can always come here to get a pick me up=)

Denise said...

Thanks for such a lovely post.

Sue G said...

Sometimes I think the race isn't about who we beat or how much success we have along the way. I think it's more about how much we were present in the race, how much we enjoyed the privilege of running, and how much we learned about ourselves along the way.

Every event has purpose. But, somewhere along this road of life, we decided--individually and collectively--that WE would be the ones to define the purpose.

I believe looking for God's purpose and presence in every leg of the race is far more valuable than anything we could come up with ourselves.

Wonderful blog entry, Pam! I love what you told the kids about the reason for the race. So simple, simply because it included the big picture of community rather than the limited view of singularity. We need to get better at encouraging others because few of us are good at encouraging ourselves in ways that truly matter.

Jennifer said...

I am so encouraged by that great cloud of witnesses that I know is cheering me on....especially on those days when it doesn't seem like I can go another step - much less another lap!! Great verses - to go with your encouraging post. Thanks.

Amydeanne said...

what an interesting post! how true if we recieve all the info we'd maybe try to do better!
hugs!

Unknown said...

Pam,

Great "take" on that verse; how true it is!

You are a blessing!

Becky
caringbridge.org/nc/sarahsmith

Amydeanne said...

I'll save ya a cinnamon bun and some coffee! It's fun you should join!

Faithful Froggers said...

That was beautiful! LOVED this post. :)

Pam said...

I love it. As I started to read it I remembered back to our years in elem. school and the relay races we use to run. Oh...I was in shape then! Those days are so gone. Great post.